Charity in All

Somewhere I read the phrase, ‘unity in essentials, concession in peripheral and charity in all’. This came in my mind when I was thinking about the concept of ‘agree to disagree’. No two people are going to agree with each other on everything in life. Thankfully, we need not agree with others on everything. Having a different opinion need not result in disagreement, but rather seeing the thing from a different perspective; this is called “interpretation”. Interpretation is well demonstrated through various stories and proverbs. For example, we are familiar with the proverb: if you see the stone, you don’t see the dog and if you see the dog you don’t see the stone (kallak kanda naayak kaanum; naayak kanda kallak kaanum). Of course, as we all know this is not to talk about stone to chase the dog but to explain the symbol: if you see the stone, you don’t see God. If you see God, you don’t see the stone.
Our disagreement and having a different (or second) opinion challenges our (settled) perception and helps us to think differently. However, in the name of ‘agree to disagree’ we cannot function as a group without minimum agreement on essentials. We can explain the difference within a group as “personal opinion”, yet this personal opinion should not misrepresent the collective ideology of the group. Both the individual who has a personal opinion and the rest who oppose it should deliberate whether the personal opinion is related to the interpretation of essentials or comments on peripheral issues. Take for example the recent controversy on Jinnah by Sri Jaswant Singh. I am not an expert on this issue, though I have my own personal view, which is not important to express here. The way the issue was handled by both parties snowballed into unnecessary developments where both began to call each other names. The main reason for this is the lack of ‘charity in all’. The way Jaswant Singh expelled, the way the other party reacted, and the way he then responded clearly demonstrates this. Of course this is completely a political issue, but in a democratic country politicians should try to set a model for the common people to learn certain values. Thankfully, we need not imitate, as their life does not deserve imitation. However, even in this incident we can learn the lesson to agree to disagree with others, keeping charity in all.

Dayanand Bharati, Gurukulam, September 10, 2009

Busyness is the curse of this age.

In the past, before the IT companies came, we heard that ‘instant satisfaction is the curse of this age’. More than that, now ‘becoming too busy’ is going to be the curse of this IT age. Today even a lazy person has no time. With television and the Internet most people are very busy being lazy. First television deprived us personal relationship and now the Internet deprives us of personal communication. A day may come when family members will communicate with each other through email by sitting in their own rooms, that too in their own cabins inside of their room. When television came many lamented that sitting together and eating is its first victim. Now with the introduction of 3 G spectrum service, as each person can watch television in their mobile and personal computer, sitting and watching together will soon become another victim of technology. One way it is good. Now programs and advertisements make many uneasy to sit and watch as a whole family. Watching television with children is particularly difficult as they begin to ask the purpose of some products in front of everyone and elders feel embarrassed to answer those questions.

All become busy, not only is personal relationship and (personal) communication becoming a problem, but even carrying out our commitments. As I have observed, this new generation wants to do many things at the same time and cannot complete one thing in right time, if not perfectly then at least to their own satisfaction. I am not talking about any projects in their office and work place, but several personal things related to their life. Skilled and manual laborers are more blessed than those who work in high profile jobs in offices. These people even bring their work home with them and become very busy. They choose to live with such busyness so no one can help or save them. However, their busyness often creates problems for others and deprives their personal freedom and choice. For example, one cannot go to any music/dance performance, or religious/spiritual gatherings without any guarantee that they will not be disturbed by others. Even amidst puja and (religious) rituals, phone calls received by a few always disturb everyone. Even after repeated requests, some feel it is less to their dignity and business to keep their mobiles switched off. By disturbing others they do not demonstrate how busy they are or how important they are, but what a nuisance they have become to every one. So the net outcome of busyness is not any valuable contribution. The outcome is becoming a nuisance to many.

Dayanand Bharati, Gurukulam. June 21, 2010

Swamiji,The truth is really difficult to face. The stuff you have mentioned on the maladies of the IT revolution is more hard-hitting than even any industry expert can say :) :) On your antidote of "staying focused", it means a lot and is profound. And if that focus is on things that are spiritual, that seems to be the only light at the end of the tunnel for all workaholics like me. Regards,M.S.Srikanth

Boycott
Sri Suki Sivam’s main message (Sun T.V. Dec. 2009) was ‘boycott Chinese goods in order to compete with them in the global economy’. However, I doubt that such an appeal, with a spirit of nationalism and commitment to our country, is possible in a country like India where there is ‘moha’ (lust) after ‘foreign’ goods of every kind.
Once, when I was returning to India from Nepal I noticed some Indian youngsters who were bribing the customs official, so that they could bring in the 'foreign' jeans that they purchased in Nepal. As they were triumphantly beaming at having managed to buy and bring 'foreign' jeans with them, I told them, “Why are you taking so much trouble to smuggle these 'foreign' jeans from Nepal? Just go to the Old Delhi Tibetian market, and you will be able to buy in wholesale jeans from any country for much less.” They were shocked to hear this. I also told them that these jeans are made and sold wholesale. They have labels such as 'Made in Germany', and 'Made in France.' They would sew these on to the jeans and export it wholesale to Nepal. Similarly, synthetic saris are imported from Gujarat by shops in Nepal and sold as 'foreign' saris to Indian tourists. For as long as we Indians continue to have ‘moha’ for ‘foreign’ goods, countries like China and Taiwan are going to dump their products on us, and we will continue to be cheated.
Now, is it possible to appeal to the common sense and moral commitment based on such artificial ideology? Instead of appealing to people based on such ideology, why not ask our Government directly to stop importing them? Many such products made in China and Taiwan are not smuggled; it is easy to dump these in the Indian market because of the new trade agreements.
Real growth in economy is possible only when we challenge our local manufactures to compete with such products, but we Indians have failed in this miserably and I do not have to elaborate on this point. There have been all kinds of malpractices, which led to a compromise in quality a number of times, and this has impacted our export potential. We Indians are used to such products and so we expect others as well to accept them. This reminds me of something I read in Salman Rushdie's novel, Satanic Verses. When a character in the story tries unlocking a door after losing its key, another character uses a safety-pin to unlock it and comments, “Made in India.”
Finally, when I get good and useful products that meet my needs at affordable costs, I will buy them. For example I have a ‘rechargeable electronic mosquito swatter’. It is a Chinese product. This product was a blessing as it helped me deal with the mosquito problem.
There are many genuine ways to compete with other economies but boycotting is not the correct and effective one.
Dayanand Bharati, Gurukulam, December 7, 2009

Tamil Songs

மனதின் குரல்
தயானந்த பாரதி
உணர்ச்சிகளின் தொகுப்பே கவிதை. பல சமயம் நம் உணர்வுகளை வெறும் வார்த்தையால் வெளிப்படுத்த முயன்று அதில் தோல்வி அடையும்போது கவிதை அதற்குத் துணைவருகின்றது. அதேசமயம், கவிதை நம் உணர்வை அப்படியே வெளிப்படுத்தாமல், அதற்கு கற்பனை சேர்த்து, சுருக்கமாக நம் உணர்வை வெளிப்படுத்தவும் உதவுகின்றது. கவிதை என்ற ஒன்று மட்டும் இல்லாதிருந்தால், மானிடர் வாழ்வு எவ்வளவு வறட்சியாக இருந்திருக்கும். தற்கால ’வசன கவிதைகள்’ இலக்கண, இலக்கிய மரபுகளிலிருந்து மாறுபட்டு இருந்தாலும், அவை மனிதனுக்கு தன் உணர்வுகளை வெளிப்படுத்தரும் எழுத்துச் சுதந்திரம் மிகவும் சிறப்பானது.
இதுதான் கவிதைஎன எல்லை வகுப்பது யார்? மனித உணர்வுகளும், வார்த்தைகளும் உள்ளவரை கவிதைக்கு அணைபோடவோ, அல்லது எல்லை வகுக்கவோ யாராலும் முடியாது. பிறர் ஏற்றுக்கொள்ள வேண்டும் என ஒரு கவிஞ்ஞன் எழுதுவது இல்லை. அது அவனின் மனதின் குரல். அதை அவன் தன் மன, ஆன்மீக திருப்திக்காகத்தான் எழுதுகிறானே தவிர, பிறர் பாராட்டவேண்டும் என்று எதிர்பார்த்து அல்ல. என் கவிதைகளும் (அவை கவிதை என மறுக்கப்பட்டாலும் கூட) என் மனதின் குரல். ஆனால் இக்குரல் சிலரது மன உணர்வுகளுக்கு ஒரு வடிகாலாக இருக்குமானால் அதை என் வரையில் பூட்டி வைப்பது முறையல்ல என்பதால் அவற்றில் சிலவற்றை இங்கு தொகுத்துத் தந்துள்ளேன்.
நான் எழுதிய கவிதைகள்-பாடல்கள் ஒவ்வொன்றின் பின்னணியிலும் ஒரு சம்பவம் பெரும்பாலும் இருக்கும். எனவே பல கவிதைகளுக்கு அவற்றின் பின்னணியை முடிந்தவரை மறைக்காமல், தெரிந்தவரை எழுதியுள்ளேன். இது அக்கவிதையின் மையக் கருத்தை உணர்ந்துகொள்ள உதவும் என எண்ணுகின்றேன். சில கவிதைகள் என் உண்மையான கொள்கையைப் பிரதிபளிக்கவில்லை. அவை வெறும் கற்பனைகள். சிலசமயம் கருத்து முரண்பாடு காணப்படும். அதற்கு முக்கியக் காரணம், அந்த சூழ்நிலையில் மனதில் தோன்றிய உணர்ச்சிகளுக்கு வடிகால் கொடுக்க அவை எழுதப்பட்டன. சில கருத்துக்களில் எனக்கே உடன்பாடு இல்லை. ஆனால் அந்தச் சூழ்நிலையில் மனதின் உணர்ச்சிப் பெருக்கை, கற்பனைகலந்து வார்த்தையாக வெளிப்படுத்தி உள்ளேன். பிழைதிருத்தம் செய்யவில்லை. என் அனுமதியன்றி வெளியிடவோ, பத்திரிக்கைகளுக்கு அனுப்பக் கூடாது.
என் கவிதைகள் இலக்கண, இலக்கிய மரபுகளுக்கு உட்பட்டவையல்ல. ஆனால் அவை முழுதும் வசன கவிதைகள் அல்ல. மரபை முழுதும் ஒதுக்க முடியாமல், மாற்றத்தை அப்படியே ஏற்கவும் முடியாமல் தவிக்கும் இடைப்பட்ட தலைமுறையைச் சார்ந்தவன் நான். என்வேதான், என் கவிதைகளை பகிர்ந்துகொள்ளும்முன் மரபை சார்ந்து அவையடக்கமாக, அதேசமயம் இலக்கண, இலக்கிய மரபைச்சாராத முதல் கவிதையைத் தர விரும்புகின்றேன்.

1. கவிதையாகுமோ

எழுதவேண்டும் என்பதற்காக
எழுத்துக்களை வார்தைகளாக்கி
கருத்தேதும் அதில் இல்லாமல்
கவிதை என்ற பெயராலே
உளறுவதும் கவியாகுமோ
பேதை என் வார்த்தைகளே?
--லக்னோ, உத்திரப் பிரதேசம். 21-01-1996

Formulas Won't Work

Not only am I not the right person but I am also the wrong person to
share this, as a sannyasi.  However, being part of society, I am
sharing my reflection.  Recently hundreds of couples gathered to
insist the value of the relationship between husband and wife in a
famous ashram, in Tamilnadu.  They even took vows holding each other's
hands.  And after the programme, one woman, appreciating such
gatherings to teach the younger generations, who do not understand
many values in life, said, 'Three things are taught to us: "No
comment; no command and no demand."'

Though I appreciate the noble purpose of the organizers of such
meeting, yet providing some simple formulas won't actually help people
in real life.  It is interesting that such gatherings were arranged to
strengthen the relationship and bond between husband and wife. But a
formula is given just opposite to such a bond and relationship.

Every human relationship is important for an individual, family and
community (also society at large) to grow.  And it is possible only
when we 'comment, command and even demand' several things from each
other.  Of course we can use a better word for 'comment' as 'advice or
counsel'; 'command' as 'request' and 'demand' as 'rights'.  But
whichever words we might use, any relationship can develop and
function when there is mutual contribution by all these means.
Imagine a relationship between a husband and wife without any
'comment, command and demand'.  Though I don't have personal
experience in this field, based on other relationships that I enjoy, I
can say with much confidence that all relationships will remain not
only dry but also boring without contributing each other through our
'comment, command and demand.'  Because, we can summarize all these
three words in one word: COMMUNICATION.  And those who try to live
strictly implementing such formulas won't have any communication with
anyone.  We can observe that not even animals can survive or thrive if
such formula is followed.

The problem with human beings sometimes is that, in the name of doing
certain things differently, we completely lose track and get lost in
such formulas and programmes.  But the only consolation for me is
that, like many other such programmes and formulas, we will never
implement them, but will live naturally 'commenting, commanding and
demanding' in our life enjoying our relationship and learning through
errors and mistakes and not through elitist, unnatural intellectual
formulas.  Tastelessness itself is a taste (with which we are not
familiar or the one that we don't like); not using any symbol itself
is a symbol.  In the same way, 'no comments' itself is a comment
(without words).  One need not use only words to 'command'. There
other ways to command and also to demand.   Those who exercise
authority (husband or wife) know how to command, even without words,
and those who depend know how to demand their rights.  Only those who
are yet to born can refrain from commenting, commanding and demanding.
The rest of the living beings, including the dead ones cannot escape
from commenting, commanding and demanding.

Finally, when someone, after asking me for help, says, 'Sorry for the
trouble,' I say with a smile, 'I need to give you trouble and you
need to give me trouble.  Otherwise we cannot live on this earth.  Of
course we can use a better word for 'trouble' though that is what we
give and need to give to each other as living beings.'

So 'comment, command and demand' to celebrate all relationships with
proper communication.

Dayanand Bharati, Gurukulam, September 1, 2009.

Moral Policing

Moral policing has become a regular ritual in India by the right wing
of certain religious groups. In the name of protecting and
safeguarding our culture and stopping the invasion of Western cultural
values and symbols, they introduce a new kind of violent culture in
our Indian worldview, which otherwise has always remained tolerant in
its spirit. No doubt every wrong needs to be opposed. But the way it
is done completely mars the very purpose of that cause. Not only what
to oppose is important but how to do is too.

'We are not opposing the celebration of love, but the
commercialization and vulgarization of it,' is the argument put forth
by those who oppose the different expressions of the so-called
Valentine's Day. Every tender feeling like love, care and compassion
is part of our human life. Whether we realize and express them in our
everyday activity or not, it is there in its spirit. But, we take
some special day and time to express in concrete form in life. So
what is wrong by doing it on certain day, though imported from the
West? Birthday, wedding anniversary, golden jubilee etc. are also
imported and very well integrated in our culture now.

If commercialization and vulgarity is the main concern for these right
wing people, better let them first pay attention to the
commercialization of religion in India. Just visit any famous temple
and see the commercial activity there. It is disgusting to see the
way pilgrims are exploited by the temple authorities and priests. As
they are in a hurry to have the darshan and go to the next place, they
become easy victims (by paying money) or are deprived of their right
(by missing the darshan).*

Regarding the vulgarity, this is the land of Kamasutra, Kajuraho and
Konark where sex is not only celebrated in art, but also displayed in
a graphic way. Those who see them as art are not disturbed by their
graphic expression. In the same way, if we too learn to see the
spirit behind the expression of love on such days like Valentine, then
we too will celebrate it with them.

This does not mean that I am supporting these kinds of 'days'.
Whether we agree or not, such things are going to come. But how to
handle such events depends not upon those who celebrate them, but who
oppose them. When discipline degenerates, then it becomes legalism,
which will antagonize people and force them to become rebels rather
than better people. Those who want to reform, should do it with the
same spirit as the culture they seek to preserve.

Dayanand

Matthigir, February 15, 2007

*Let me give one recent example. When one of my shishyas family came
from North India to visit some places in South, I accompanied them.
When I took them to Chidembaram, I explained few important things
about the temple and also pujas. Among them two are very important:
Ratna Sabapathi puja and seeing the 'Chidembara Rakasyam' (secret of
Chidembaram). When we reached the temple it was almost 10.00 am. As
usual they have to buy for special tickets to see 'Chidembara
rahasyam' and also to see the main deity in the sanctum sanctorum.
And they paid Rs. 50/- person and got the ticket. But I didn't go
with them. However, as the time was nearing for Spatikaling (Crystal
lingam) and Ratna Sabapathi puja, the main priest in the sanctum
sanctram just chased the people down. So they hardly could see the
main deity Nataraja and the Chidembaram Rahasyam was not shown to
them. As they don't know Tamil, they could not even ask about it to
the priest. I felt very sorry for them and told how
'commercialization' of religion and rituals, forces the temple
authorities only to think about the money and not the desire of the
devotees.

If the time for the other pujas was nearing, then they should have
stopped selling the special darshan tickets. The Deekshidar (priest)
who was issuing the ticket was also sitting on the very mandap in
which the sanctrum sanctum is located. He knows well that if he
issues the ticket that time, the devotees cannot see both the main
deity and Rahasyam. Yet he was least bothered about the devotees, and
his only aim is to sell more tickets to collect money. This family
from North is not going to come again to the South, spending money,
energy and time. But the religious brokers have no concern on such
matters; they are only after the money.

Ethnicity should not be encouraged

I am also happy that an Indian, that too a Tamilian (Dr. Venkatraman
Ramakrishnan) got the Nobel Prize for Chemistry this year.  But the
way both the media and the govternment suddenly began to claim and own
such person as a person of Indian origin or Tamil looks both
hypocritical and artificial.  According to Ravikumar, M.L.A.--who
wrote in Junior Vikatan, 'He is a Tamilian,' 14thOct. 2009, p. 13--Dr.
Ramakrishnan, left his birth place Chidembaram at the age of three
because of his father's work.  If I am correct, on the day the Nobel
Prize announced to Dr. Ramakrishnan, one Tamil T.V. channel even
interviewed the elementary school teacher at Chidembaram, where
Venkatraman studied?!?  How did a three year old child study in a
school back in early 1950s, where no pre K. G. or L.K.G. schools ever
existed?  I am not sure whether the T.V. report is wrong or
Ravikumar's information.  As the Television channels do all kinds of
things for the TRP (target rating point), we cannot trust them much.

Now coming to the claim of Venkatraman being a Tamilian or Indian,
there were genuine reasons for many such intellectuals to go away from
India and demonstrate their ability where they were given the
opportunity to work as a Scientist first and then as a human—least
minding about their ethnicity and nationality (or caste in our case).
But such intellectual drainage should bring more shame to us, while
instead, we suddenly begin to claim them as our own.

In fact, Dr. Radhakrishnan is an American.  The same way, when Kalpana
Chawla was killed in the Nasa space launch, she was glorified as a
pioneer Indian woman space scientist, whereas she was actually an
American citizen.  It is interesting to note that the Tamil Nadu
government even constituted one Bravery Award for women in Kalpana
Chawla's name.  Though I am not despising her tragic death, I cannot
still understand what kind of bravery there was in her death.  It was
a tragic accident, and according to some reports she died even before
her mind could recognize it.  But in India, particularly in Tamil Nadu
a 'bravery award' is constituted in her name to encourage any woman
who has done some real brave incident in real life.  Politicians can
use anything to earn some popularity.

In the recent past in the same way Mr. Mailswami Annadurai of ISRO
was recognized and glorified as a Tamil scientist when ISRO
successfully launched Chandrayan satellite.  It is true that they
deserve due recognition in their birth place, as it will inspire and
challenge many more youngsters to follow such research.

At the same time it should remind our government to think seriously
about such intellectual drainage from our land and encourage the
existing scientists working sincerely in India itself.  It is true
that the herb in our own garden never gets its value.  In the same
way, when we appreciate any individuals for their success as pioneers,
the spirit of regionalism or nationalism should not be highlighted too
much at the cost of certain facts which hit us back.

I am not blaming or questioning those who left India, but let us learn
to encourage and appreciate and even claim as our own those who stay
here and toil as Indians first and then as Scientists rather than
narrowing them down with regionalism.

Dayanand Bharati, Gurukulam, October 8, 2009